{"id":68606,"date":"2023-11-30T06:11:55","date_gmt":"2023-11-30T06:11:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/talkcelnews.com\/?p=68606"},"modified":"2023-11-30T06:11:55","modified_gmt":"2023-11-30T06:11:55","slug":"i-want-to-wear-this-dress-to-a-wedding-but-my-friends-say-its-a-no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/talkcelnews.com\/lifestyle\/i-want-to-wear-this-dress-to-a-wedding-but-my-friends-say-its-a-no\/","title":{"rendered":"I want to wear this dress to a wedding but my friends say it's a 'no'"},"content":{"rendered":"
A young woman has been left feeling like she has nothing to wear to an upcoming wedding after her friends slammed her chosen outfit.<\/p>\n
The woman chose a $270 dress by ‘Reformation’ a trendy Los Angeles brand – but to her shock when she showed her pals they told her the look was a ‘big no, no’.<\/p>\n
Taking to Reddit the frustrated wedding guest explained the off-shoulder, tea-length party dress was black – which appeared to be the problem.<\/p>\n
She explained she lives in Australia now – so thought the dress would be fine for the formal occasion – but her friends back home were adamant it was inappropriate.<\/p>\n
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A young woman was slammed by friends after revealing she would be wearing this dress to a wedding\u00a0<\/p>\n
The question left the people of Reddit divided.<\/p>\n
‘If they’re really traditional, then no. If it’s going to be hot or sunny, in a church, or it’s a daytime wedding, no. If they’re going for a casual, boho, or beachy vibe? No,’ one woman slammed.<\/p>\n
‘Black is for funerals. And red is for those who slept with the groom,’ said another.<\/p>\n
A third stated: ‘Traditionally to wear black means you don\u2019t approve of the union.’\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
But Australians appeared to back the young woman up on her choice of outfit.<\/p>\n
‘I think I have almost exclusively worn some type of black dress to every wedding I’ve been to in Melbourne,’ one woman said.’<\/p>\n
‘I have almost exclusively worn black as a guest to weddings as an adult, wore back as a bride at my own wedding, and looks like there’s a good chance I’ll be wearing black as a bridesmaid at my sister’s,’ said another.<\/p>\n
A third added: ‘Love this – I never even knew it was a thing not to wear black! There’s always so many of us in little black dresses at Melbourne weddings.’<\/p>\n
Others suggested the correct answer can only be given by the bride – as it is up to her what is and isn’t acceptable.<\/p>\n
‘Ask the bride.\u00a0It’s fine for some people, really bad for others and it is hard to tell who will have family that will be pissed off.’<\/p>\n
Some said the ‘vibe’ of the wedding provides people with clues so they can make an educated guess.<\/p>\n
‘If it is a daytime wedding in a sunny venue, like a garden then no. If it is in the evening and is cocktail or formal themed – or at a winery then yes,’ they said.<\/p>\n
The young woman said dark blue was her first choice but it made her ‘look yellow’ due to her olive skin.<\/p>\n
She added she doesn’t ‘personally know’ the bride or groom and is a plus one.<\/p>\n
‘I asked my partner to ask and he never did.’\u00a0<\/p>\n
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