{"id":68502,"date":"2023-11-26T09:00:57","date_gmt":"2023-11-26T09:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/talkcelnews.com\/?p=68502"},"modified":"2023-11-26T09:00:57","modified_gmt":"2023-11-26T09:00:57","slug":"i-have-no-freedom-because-my-possessive-husband-is-checking-on-me-all-the-time-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/talkcelnews.com\/lifestyle\/i-have-no-freedom-because-my-possessive-husband-is-checking-on-me-all-the-time-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"I have no freedom because my possessive husband is checking on me all the time | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

DEAR DEIDRE: THERE isn\u2019t a thing I can do without my possessive husband checking up on me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m 59 years old and I\u2019m a wheelchair user. <\/p>\n

My husband is 64 and he\u2019s always been overbearing, however, recently he has taken things to a whole new level.<\/p>\n

When I go out he visibly bristles if another man talks to me. <\/p>\n

When I was younger, I could never go out alone.<\/p>\n

I was bed-bound during the pandemic and although I can get around more now, I\u2019m lonelier than ever and don\u2019t know what to do.<\/p>\n

Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team<\/h3>\n

Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.<\/p>\n

Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.<\/p>\n

You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.<\/p>\n

DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>It\u2019s his own insecurity and fears which feed this behaviour. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m sorry that you are feeling so isolated.<\/p>\n

Can you talk to your husband about how lonely and down you feel?<\/p>\n

If you can both read my support pack Dealing With Jealousy it will help you to understand just how damaging this dynamic is.<\/p>\n

l would also recommend womensaid.org. <\/p>\n

It offers a questionnaire you can take to see if your husband\u2019s behaviour is abusive.<\/p>\n

It is important you see your doctor and talk about how low you are feeling.<\/p>\n

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