DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend treats me like his personal bank and I\u2019m sick of it \u2013 but I can\u2019t leave him because he\u2019d have nowhere to go.<\/p>\n
We\u2019re both 33 and have been together for four years. Our relationship is pretty rubbish. We don\u2019t have fun or talk.<\/p>\n
We spend the evenings sitting on the sofa, looking at our own laptops or phones and barely speaking.<\/p>\n
As for sex, that has never been great. We rarely do it and, when we do, there\u2019s no snogging or foreplay. <\/p>\n
It\u2019s all over in a few minutes from start to finish. I don\u2019t orgasm and I\u2019ve given up pretending.<\/p>\n
The problem is, he is awful with money and has no savings. <\/p>\n
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He runs out of cash before the end of the month, so he borrows from me. <\/p>\n
He says he\u2019ll pay me back, but of course he never does.<\/p>\n
I can\u2019t end the relationship because he wouldn\u2019t cope alone.<\/p>\n