{"id":66715,"date":"2023-09-13T20:14:13","date_gmt":"2023-09-13T20:14:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/talkcelnews.com\/?p=66715"},"modified":"2023-09-13T20:14:13","modified_gmt":"2023-09-13T20:14:13","slug":"im-beginning-to-think-my-married-lover-is-taking-me-for-a-fool-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/talkcelnews.com\/lifestyle\/im-beginning-to-think-my-married-lover-is-taking-me-for-a-fool-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"I'm beginning to think my married lover is taking me for a fool | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE been in a relationship with a married woman for two years, but I\u2019m starting to doubt whether anything she has told me is true.<\/p>\n

If my lover can lie to her husband about our affair, is she being dishonest with me too?<\/p>\n

I\u2019m a 50-year-old widower with three children, aged 11, nine and seven. My wife died five years ago.<\/p>\n

I met my lover, who is 43, at a conference and we quickly became friends.<\/p>\n

I knew she was married but, over time, my feelings became romantic. She said she felt the same.<\/p>\n

She told me she was separating from her husband, hadn\u2019t slept with him for years and wanted to file for divorce.<\/p>\n

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However, he has mental health problems, and she didn\u2019t want to tip him over the edge.<\/p>\n

When we\u2019re together, our relationship is amazing. She makes me happy, and the sex is fantastic.<\/p>\n

She has really bonded with my children too, in a way nobody else has since they lost their mum. But when we\u2019re apart I feel lonely and insecure. I can\u2019t call her or message her as I know she\u2019s with her husband.<\/p>\n

After two years, I need to be sure we have a future. Yet she seems no closer to leaving him.<\/p>\n

I question how she can have sex with me, tell me she loves me, then leave my house, go back to him and act normally.<\/p>\n

If she\u2019s capable of that, is she feeding me a pack of lies too? <\/p>\n

Are they really not intimate? Has she any intention of leaving him? <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to lose her, but I need to know if I\u2019m being played for a fool.<\/p>\n

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DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span> It\u2019s not surprising that you\u2019re starting to doubt your lover\u2019s account of her relationship.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve not only let her into your life but also into your children\u2019s, which is a significant consideration after they lost their mother. <\/p>\n

I can\u2019t tell you if she\u2019s being honest or not. Only she knows the truth.
You need to talk to her and tell her how you\u2019re feeling.<\/p>\n

To discover if she genuinely intends to leave her husband is to put your relationship on hold until she has sorted out her marriage one way or another.<\/p>\n

Tell her you love her but need to know if you have a future together or not.<\/p>\n

My support pack, Your Lover Not Free, has more insights on being in this type of relationship.<\/p>\n

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