DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T decide whether to keep my comfortable and predictable lifestyle or risk leaving for a chance to be happy.
I live with my partner in a lovely five-bed house. We don’t struggle at all.
We got together at 16. We are both now 39 and have a son who’s 15.
My partner says he loves me but he never shows it.
Sex is the same every time – when it happens.
It’s always on a Saturday night and nothing remotely romantic ever happens.
We have dinner, watch a film and then he announces he’s going to bed and invites me up.
I get in bed, we have sex, there is no foreplay, its always missionary and with the lights out.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your relationship and sex life has stagnated, but think hard before throwing your marriage away.
You can improve your sex life and become closer. Read my support pack Relationship MOT together.
This will help him see big changes are needed. Counselling may also be useful (relate.org.uk).
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