I called the police on my girlfriend when she tried to empty my bank account

DEAR DEIDRE: I CALLED the police on my girlfriend when she tried to empty my account.

I felt dreadful as the police went to her workplace and caused a scene.


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We’ve been together for a year. She’s 25 and I’m 28.

My parents own a successful restaurant which I run. I have a house and no money worries.

My girlfriend was in the habit of asking me to pay for everything, be it things for herself or gifts for her family – and I never objected.

She then got details of my bank account and started to move money out of there into her own account.

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The bank phoned me to warn me something was going on, so I had no choice but to report her. She ended things with me.

I love her and miss her, though. I want her back. Do I have any chance?

DEIDRE SAYS: Why would you want to take her back? There are alarm bells ringing for me.

This girl was deceptive and believed being with you was her passport to financial freedom. But she showed you no honesty. That is not love.

Move on and find somebody who wants an equal partnership, not a cash cow.

My support pack Finding The Love Of Your Life will show you how.

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