Girlfriend said we were soulmates and then dumped me for another guy

DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS always told by my girlfriend we were soulmates but she went and dumped me for another guy.

He moved in with her within weeks of our relationship ending, but she has contacted me a few times since.

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I’m 28 and my ex is 26. We were together for three years and broke up six months ago.

But I think she keeps a check on my social media as she congratulated me a day after I posted about a promotion.

The chat has been sexual at times. She has told me she would like to swap goodnight messages with me.

I can’t get my head around why she keeps speaking to me or why it has continued.

Her new guy does not know about me and would not be happy if he knew we were talking.

I told her she’s taking risks but she said it is worth it.

DEIDRE SAYS: She may tell herself that but it is not worth it for you.

She may mean well but the truth is she’s continuing to control your life.

She may be going through a tough time in her relationship so turns to you but all it does is churn up your heartache all over again.

Tell her firmly you’re going to stop all contact.

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